MARRIAGE CHURCH CULTURE
A beautiful ceremony, the LOVE of your life, family, friends, the celebration...all is a dream come true.
Until you start to live every day life together. In any relationship, we reach a point where the person we are with doesn't feel as special as he or she used to. Maybe we start picking at flaws or noticing other people, wondering if we'd be happier with them. And all at once the relationship begins it's slow decline.
I'm a wife, mother, coach, minister to wives and yes, I am also an author.
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Brenda and her husband Bill assist young men and families with restoration and relationship building based on biblical principals.
Let me give you a little background:
My work began as a wife undone. I started coaching and mentoring wives and was able to see God's plan for my own life, family and marriage. My marriage of eight years, to my wonderful husband Bill, had its' share of ups and downs, just like any marriage but didn't improve until I actually changed my own perspective. In doing so, that change in perspective, later resulted in the positive changes I desired to see within my own life. As I began to see these changes, my passion and ultimate desire grew strong to help other women, women - just like me, to overcome their obstacles and challenges in their own marriages.
It didn't happen over night but my daily journals became a huge help. Not really expecting anything from my writings, just utilizing them as a way to express my thoughts and feelings, but in time, I slowly started to discover --- wifehood.
In time, this awareness and my faith, led me to start my own first group of women called:
mind trying to find time, just for me. But I knew if I wanted to have that ultimate dream come true, that beautiful relationship, the harmony within my home and the peace within my soul, I had to make the time, if I wanted all of that and more.
...and so I did.
Trust me, I did much more in between and there wasn't alot of time left for me at the end of any given day. I was a wife, mom, coach and even more...trying to juggle every day life was hard enough, never
Bill and Brenda Moore, happily married, 2007.
What exactly is a Wife Coach?
A Wife Coach is an ally for personal growth. You decide that you want to work together, with me to become your best selves as quickly as possible. I commit to helping you commit to loving and caring for each other- and everyone around you.
It is only when you are living love and kindness that your relationship will truly flourish. Try it and see. When you put in the practice, you can make all your dreams come true.
Keep in mind, be what you want your partner to be.
Instead of looking for amazing features in someone else, develop them in yourself. For expample: If you want a partner with financial stability, get stable yourself! You want someone fun? BE fun!
The beauty of perception is that you see all your qualities, both good and bad, reflected back to you in your partner. He becomes, your inner mirror. Be complete and whole within yourself, and you will see the completion and whole-ness within your partner.
There's so much more and it's work.
My ability to coach wives and wives in preparation is a gift from God, the confirmation of how the Lord has blessed and grown my ministry of coaching women, through many different avenues, will be my gift to you. Conferences, speaking engagements, and the Wife Check Community, which I look forward to you becoming a welcome part of, are all the different ways that I will enjoy extending this precious blessing.
The first directive is 'Becoming a Crown of Beauty'.
This blessing comes with three (3) directives.
While coaching wives and wives in preparation, I have chosed three (3) directives for instruction for a Wife Check.
The second directive is 'Crowning the King, with NO Regrets.'
and...the last is preparing the woman to have the 'Image of a Wife.'
The foundational scriptures of a Wife Check: 1 Peter 3:1-5 (ESV)
1 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,
2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct.
3 Do not let your adorning be external - the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear--
4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sign is very precious.
5 For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands.
Respecting his confidence also means showering him with compliments. Letting him know when you notice wonderful things about him or his actions. Being free with laughter and smiles, especially when 'he' is the cause. Feeling his muscles, never ceasing to be impressed by his skills and telling him about it. Cheering him on. Compliment! Complimenting him in private and in public. With family and with friends. Like I said -- you're his biggest fan! You never want him to forget that.
Does this mean you never address him with concerns that the Lord has laid on your heart? Of course not. You are married to give God glory. For, both, your sancifications. To point each other to Christ. Go to him, tell him your thoughts and fears.
Let me help and give you the skills you need to build the marriage of your dreams.
I gave you alot to go on here, So now, let's get you started...
Contact Me (and that's easy) - Reaching me is not difficult at all.
and... if you favor texting over calling, that's fine too.
Grab your calendar and be ready to setup an appointment for your -
Yes, it's FREE! - We're going to talk one-on-one and together we'll find the best plan that will work for you to achieve all that you've dream of.
... and your final step:
...Love and Happiness that will fill your mind, body and spirit.
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Currently, Brenda is pursuing a degree in Theology slated for completion in April, 2015. She also holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Human Services from Springfield College in Springfield, Massachusetts.
Brenda's first book titled Wife Check - Becoming a Crown of Beauty will be on sale starting in April, 2015.
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Author: Wife Check - Becoming a Crown of Beauty
Author: Brenda Moore
No matter how hard we try to improve ourselves, no one is perfect and living in the center of God's will is sometimes a mystery even to the believer. Having me as your Wife Coach will give you some direction as you head into another year as a wife, or soon to be wife. I emphasize encouragment and support, on both ends, throughout my teaching process. A wife should be her husband's biggest fan! and alot of times a wife can forget that.
You see, things are easy when you're dating because you're both putting your best feet forward, showing each other your best sides. Then when you become more and more comfortable with each other, especially in marriage when you are committed, living together, and share a room, it gets different. We are exposed to all of each other's faults and bad habits. One of the biggest issues in life is being too comfortable with people you're close to -- taking things out on them, not thinking before you speak, using an angry tone, etc. These things can definitely creep into your relationship. Just one demeaning phrase can break down your husband's confidence in a second. Yes, he can forgive you, but it can still stick in his mind. James 3:2-10 points out how much of an impact the tongue can have -- such a little part of the body, but it can do much damage. This is definitely true in any marriage.
This doesn't mean that you have to be positive in a fake and phony way all the time. You can be honest, genuine, and authentic with your husband, telling him how you feel when necessary, and even when you're discussing hard things. You can be respectful and supportive, at the same time. Actually thinking about how words may come across to him before you say them. I can teach you how to be tactful, find the right words, and watch your tone, so that you can build your marriage all within the center of God's will.
Yes, some of those teachings may seem forced and be fake to you if you're not used to them, but with the help of the Holy Spirit, these ways can be formed into good habits. Your mind can become accustomed to thinking through what you say and saying it in a respectful way. Especially when you focus on the love you have for your husband in spite of whatever difficult moment you are encountering at that time...it won't be fake.
I Can't Promise You That Marriage Will Be Easy, But I Can Say That Marriage,
Some people touch us for a moment, and some for a season...
When you found that ONE, that perfect person you want to stay with forever and ever, the one you'll spend the rest of your life loving, honoring and cherishing, you marry.
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Your life is a reflection of the thoughts you think. Changing your thoughts, changes your inner state, your behaviour and your end results. If you're going to put 'project blame', excuses or a sense of entitlement onto your husband or mate, that's not going to work.
Having a wife coach goes beyond establishing an ordinary relationship with your partner. Within this revolutionary idea your role will be to support each other on your path to reach an ultimate evolution, to become your best self, to check yourself and your own perspectives as oppose to checking the people, places and things around you in ordinary life.
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